I am sitting on the plane now, trying to get comfortable, it is not
easy. You see I have this sharp pain in my back. I know the exact spot;
lower back, left side, just a touch to the right. And I know the exact
moment it came about...
It was several years ago. I was still
training on a semi-regular basis at the Jerusalem gym, more as a show of
support than out of a desire to improve my MMA skills. In this
particular MMA class I pared off with a young fellow, about my height
but a few kilo heavier.
Now when it comes to a fight - I will do
everything to defend myself, I will not allow anyone to hurt me. But
with training drills we do not protect ourselves, we allow our partner,
(not our opponent) to practice techniques on us. We do not protect
ourselves; we trust our partner to protect us.
But my partner that
day was young and dumb. He was a "tough guy" and caution and restraint
is for the weak, the soft. So we were doing a dri…
As our world continues to shrink, diversify and change, the effects on our daily social interactions also change. There are no areas in our lives where this shift isn't felt: Places of work, recreational activities, family gatherings, social events, etc. have all be affected by this incredible shift in social interaction.
The internet has increased the level of interconnectedness between average people to an unprecedented level which in the not so distant past would only have been achieved by a celebrity, or politician. Now-a-days it is as if everyone has their own Conan O'Brien Show. Drama is a drug and there are a lot of junkies running rampant.
Lately there has been a lot of buzz about being politically correct, inappropriate or insensitive. These social constructs which were intended to protect and respect someones feelings and life value can also be misunderstood, taken out of context and misused.
Sometimes people are Politically Incorrect, Inappropriate and Insensitiv…
"All the darkness! I'm going to walk into the light!" ~Job
Sometimes there's just too much to consider, too much to understand and analyze, too many consequences to play out in our mind, too many things to clean, unpack, or repair before we can go out and play.
Sometimes the simplest and best use of our will is to drop it all and just walk out from under everything that is covering us, even if it is only for an hour or so (like going to Krav Class!) - just walk out from under the webs we've spun, the tasks we've assumed, the problems we have to solve. They'll be there when we get back and maybe some of them will fall apart without our worry to hold them up.
Wouldn't that be nice.
Action (or Non-Action) Steps: Sit quietly and try to stop working your problems.With each breath, put a concern down and feel your being intact without it.Breathe freely and realize that your being is whole whether you solve your problems or not.Breathe, Relax, Let Go.