This Is Frightening!


 


Happy Halloween Weekend!!


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I have to admit, Halloween is my favorite!
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I love the time of year and the feel of all of the mysterious, scary stuff. The
costumes, intrigue and festivities!
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Did you know its the second highest retailing holiday next to Christmas!?
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Trick or Treat!!

Wondering which you'll get is Good for Halloween...
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Bad for Protecting Yourself!
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Remember Halloween night when you were a kid!?
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You prepared for weeks:
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What you'd dress up as?
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We'd map out our route to the houses that we knew handed out the best candy.
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We'd pick up our Halloween flashlights.
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Remember those things?!
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They were these really cheaply made flashlights that had a pumpkin, ghost, skull or witch face made of plastic on the front end of it. 
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We got them at Meijers (our local grocery store). They never survived the night w/o breaking or just not working.
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Then we'd pick a bag for our candy...
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Not too small... (You want to make sure you have enough room for all that loot!)
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...or too big... (You don't want to lug around something that slows you down from getting to the next house... Lord knows they might run out of candy before you get there...)
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Then, after you'd planned, prepared and waited seemingly an eternity...
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The night finally comes!!!
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You're all duded up and your folks unleash you on the neighborhood!
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You look to see who has their porch light on... or some other signs of life that  indicated they're 'open for business' so to speak...
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You're soooo excited (and a little nervous too!)
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You run for the door...
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...Make your approach...
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Stopping your sprint just inches before you slam into the house...
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Reach out with your little pointer finger to ring the doorbell...
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DING DONG...
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And then YELL!!!
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TRICK OR TREAT!!!!
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You excitedly wait for the sound of the door opening...
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The Oohing and Ahhhing as people fawn over your expertly fashioned costume.
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Then out comes...The BOWL!!!
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Yes, that's right!!!!
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The Bowl w/the CANDY!!!
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You open your bag and preparation for a healthy handful of sugary goodness!
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You scream 'thank you' as you tear off to the next house to be sacked!
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Aaaaaahhhhhh the memories!
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Conflict & Violence Is a Lot Like That Too...
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WHAT?!
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Yep...
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Just like Trick or Treating conflict and violence has a rhythm, script and 'rules of engagement'.
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It's called...

"The Game"
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Rather than going over all of the details (like I do in the PeaceWalker Course)...
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Let me hit a main point or two...
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1) There are PLAYERS of the Game:
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With Halloween, there are the Trick or Treaters, the parents that haul them around and the people who hand out the candy!
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Everyone knows their role!
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Same thing when it comes to conflict, crime and violence...
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There are...
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Aggressors ('perps') & Victims
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Aggressors are looking for victims, either consciously (premeditated) or innately (they have learned how to spot targets who are vulnerable and are now drawn to them almost naturally).
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Don't Be a Target or Look Like a Good Victim!
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HOW?!
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Stay Alert!
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Look Like You Could / Would Protect Yourself.
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Have a good Baseline!
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(Meaning have the right Attitude, Awareness & ability for appropriate Action!)
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Stand up for yourself and draw clear boundaries.
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Just like when you were a kid trick or treating...
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Have a PLAN!
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It doesn't need to be complicated...
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As a matter of fact the simpler, the better!
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But have one!

How you're get in and out...
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What to do if things go 'South'.
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What does 'Going South' look like?
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Like Trick or Treating... If you go to a house that has their light on, but if no one comes to the door after a few attempts of ringing the doorbell and yelling 'Trick or Treat', you cut your losses and move on to the next house...
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If a stranger tries to get you in their car... Yell and find your parents!
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You get the idea...
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Just like other things in life where you find yourself in danger...
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Your plan doesn't have to be complicated!
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If you are in a relationship and it's abusive...
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Get out!
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Relationship DONE!
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BTW - That works for jobs / careers as well...
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If your job is abusive and sucks...
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GET A NEW JOB!
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If someone put a gun to your head and wants your money...
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Give them your money!
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If someone tries to isolate you and take you somewhere you don't want to go...
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DON'T GO WITH THEM!
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When you go places...
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Know where the exits and entrances are and what to do if they're blocked!
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Have a plan for what you're going to do when the fear hits! When the conflict comes. When you come face to face with adversity! 
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Don't wait to be prepared. Don't wait to prepare those you love. Do it NOW!
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If you haven't yet, check out my free Six Day Defense home study course. Forward it to everyone you know. Everyone you want to keep safe!
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It'll give you a quick, simple plan that can change the game for you (or your loved ones), when you need it most.
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Remember...
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Wondering if you'll get a Trick or Treat is fun for Halloween...
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But, it's not when it comes to the safety of you or those you care about!
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Ok, enough of the real life scary stuff...
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Now it's almost time for you to go out and have some Spooky Halloween Fun!!
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Have fun and be safe!


Keep Going,
~Craig 

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